piece by piece, bit by bit

Sometimes we are in love with the idea of falling in love.

Loving the illusion of having or missing someone…

It’s all right to feel happy through other people but don’t get dependent on achieving happiness by being with someone.

Love yourself first before sharing your life with somebody, because if you don’t…

You will always look for people that you think can make you complete and in the end,

It will make you lose yourself more,

Bit by bit…

Piece by piece.

Learn...

Learn…
that when you plan to get even with someone, you’re only letting that person continue to hurt you.

Learn…
that ignoring the facts do not change it.

Learn…
that the easiest way to grow as a person is to surround yourself with people smarter than you are.

Learn…
That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

And learn…
that life is tough but you can be tougher.

I love you today, we'll separate tomorrow

I don’t believe that ex-lovers should be friends.

Just like what Edmund Freud said,

Author of “I Love You Today, We’ll Separate Tomorrow,”

“Ex-lovers cannot be friends. If they do so, it’s either they still love each other or they never really loved each other at all.”

An Astronomer’s proof that God really exist:

“I always look at the 8 planets and see every movement of it.

I realize all of them are moving.

But one thing really amazes me.

The earth never changes its course- not even a bit.

You know why?

If the earth gets 1 degree closer to the sun it will burn.

And If 1 degree apart it will freeze.

So I realize there’s someone holding it.

Someone called God.”

unless you love pain

There's nothing better than to love and be loved in return.

Unrequited love are for fools.

Why pine over someone if it makes you miserable?

Appreciating oneself is the first step to finding a good love.

grab it before it's too late

It’s nonsense to be sad with what is gone.

It’s useless to frown and be in despair

if one thing or someone needs to leave you behind with

or without the right explanation,

whether it’s the truth or just lies,

just think of those who are always there and never left,

appreciate everything

and everyone you have.

Grab it before it’s too late

because most of the times,

we see what’s important

when it’s already gone.

lingering limbo

Between an uncertain yes and a definite no,

always settle for the latter for it gives one the direction where to head.

The former only sets one in a space where you can

neither sit or stand,

run or walk,

talk or be silent.

Always go for certainty,

life has much to offer that lingering in limbo.

a post from facebook

"I think the final lesson in all dissolving relationships is not indifference,

or the usual blanket of condemnation of your former partner.

Things happen and life must continue.

Sometimes,

if they're lucky,

people move beyond what broke them apart

and start over with each other.

Most times... we settle for our Bibles or our copies of Maxim to keep us warm.

It's sad.

Although life must continue...

You can't stand still."

if you love me then...

Although it is true that a big part of love
is putting another person's
happiness ahead of your own
this never includes compromising your values
or being untrue to yourself.

tinkerbell speaks...

You know that place between sleep and awake,

the place where you can still remember dreaming?

That's where I'll always love you, Peter Pan.

That's where I'll be waiting.