I have the best!

Love isn’t about having a seemingly perfect partner and a relationship.


It’s all about seeing better people along the way, yet you stick to your choice and say,


“I still have the best!” ^^

of dragons and witches

Of Witches and Dragons

We dream of fairy tale endings with the prince fighting

Dragons and witches…


But in reality…


Sometimes the prince


Simply makes

The princess fall in love…




Then the princess will do all the fighting.


:’(

Still find something

The person that’s for you,


is the person who will love you even when there’s no more reason to adore you.


For in your nothingness,


the one meant for you will still find something that’s lovable in you. ^___^

always in your heart

Maybe our mistakes are what make our fate.


Without them, what would shape our lives?


Perhaps if we never veered off course,


we wouldn't fall in love,


or have babies,


or be who we are.


After all, seasons change.



People come into your life and people go.


But it's comforting to know the ones you love



are always in your heart."

sweet raindrops

I don’t have the magic
to paint the sky blue when the dark clouds set in…




But I do have an umbrella we can both share
in case those raindrops fall.

This is what love is all about

We have to let go of someone who matters to us not because we have to…

But because it’s the right thing to do.

Let us remember that we can’t force anyone to love us…

nor we can’t beg someone to stay when he wants to leave and be with someone else.

However the end of love is not the end of life.

It should be the beginning of understanding that love

Leaves for a reason…


&

with a lesson. ^^

choices and consequence

You are free to make your choices…








But you are not free to choose the consequences…

Above the clouds

When it rains, all the birds fly for shelter, but the eagle alone avoids the rain by flying above the clouds.

Problems are common to all,




but attitude makes the difference.

stay in-love

Everyone that comes in your life


Has the capacity

to like…

to care…

&

to adore you…

But choose carefully whom to give your trust and life…



Because almost all people could give their affection,


but not everyone


can stay in-love

forever.

Find someone who’s…

not necessarily rich,

but classy and not afraid to be goofy at times…

not necessarily beautiful or handsome,

but can be, whenever he/she wants to…

not necessarily conservative or liberal,

but values himself/herself to live life with LIMITS
and set for himself/herself RULES that can be bend only for you.

Lastly…


love someone who knows how hard and painful it is to be heartbroken,

so he/she knows how it feels
and won’t break yours…

You don’t have to fight alone

Things in life move with twist and turns.



And they happen with reasons.


So if you doubt why something happens to you,


Stick to this:




“We can never learn to be brave and strong if the only thing in this world is joy…
Remember, you have people around you,
so you don’t have to fight alone.” ^^

The difference of GIVING UP & LETTING GO

Letting go
is sacrificing what was truly yours…



Giving up
is forgetting what was never yours…

Paranoia

Every relationship,

even friendship,


is bound to fall apart


when you start keeping things to yourself.




Secrets don’t destroy anything…



But


Suspicion does.

The Remedy

Right actions done today are the best apologies for the wrong ones done in the past.

Love is confusing isn’t it???

We can never tell

when to give up
&
When to keep trying…

when to let go
&
when to hold on…

But the question is…


Is it the love that’s so confusing???

or

The person you’re loving????

what chair???

A Philosophy professor gave one question for the final exam…

The professor touched his chair and asked:

“Using everything we’ve learned this semester. Prove that this chair doesn’t exist.”

The whole class answered for an hour but the dumbest student finished the test in less than a minute.

A week later, the grades were posted in the class. The dumbest student got the highest score...

His answer consisted of just two words:

“What chair?”



Lesson learned:

Don’t overanalyzed things.

Don’t burden yourself by trying to figure out everything.

Sometimes, the answers to our questions are really simple.

Tug of War

Love

is like a

"TUG OF WAR"...


if you know




you can't win,


let go of the rope!



because...


sometimes,



there's more satisfaction in seeing



the other side





stumble...




^^

disguised selfishness

You deserve better


is the

historical and hysterical line


uttered by

mothers

who can’t let go of sons,


fathers

who can’t let go of daughters,

lovers

who can’t let go of lovers.

It’s the self justifying

excuse used by all kinds of people

who can’t face the real truth:

"no one else is good enough for you because I want you for myself."






:'(

One day you just come to a realization...

you see that life goes on and better things come along...


you learn not to dwell on what you had...


you just think of the past as a learning experience...

never regret anything and always move forward..

I now understand what Love is

and know that I want to achieve that again,


its about karma,


all the sacrifices and hurt


and the tears and the tests

will all be worth it in the end


because it is now my turn to be spoiled,

I gave everything I had

and it wasn't good enough.

Therefore, I have learned one thing...

that one can not always win one must move on from failures and accept that everything happens for a reason,


what is meant to be will be and just let it happen.

why would I want someone like you???

I just broke up with someone


and the last thing he said to me was,


“You’ll never find anyone like me again!”


I’m thinking,

“I should hope not!"


If I don’t want you,


why would I want someone like you???

runaway

Sometimes there is a reason


your past



didn't make it to your future.

right to feel your pain

People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality...

their feelings most of all.

People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit.

Love hurts.

Feelings are disturbing.


People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous.

How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel?



Pain is meant to wake us up.

People try to hide it...

But they're wrong.



You feel your strength in the experience of pain.

It's all in how you carry it.

That's what matters.

It is a feeling.

Your feelings are a part of you.

Your own reality.

If you feel ashamed of them,

and hide them,

you're letting society destroy your reality...



THUS




You should stand up

for your right

to feel your pain.

Forever Young

When you're young,


your whole life is about

the pursuit of fun.


Then,

you grow up


and

learn to be cautious.

You could break a bone,

or a heart.

You look before you leap,

and

sometimes you don't leap at all

because there's not always

someone there to catch you.

And in life,

there's no safety net.


When did it stop being fun?

and start being scary?


I won't settle


for a monotonous life...


that's why

I decided to leave fear behind

and have some fun..

I'll be

FOREVER YOUNG...


:)

Psychology speaks...

"It's not what people do to us that hurts us...

in the most fundamental sense,

it's our chosen response to what they do to us that hurts."

Shopping for shoes is much like finding love:

Don’t try to fit it

if you’re not going to buy it,

because when it feels great

and

you’ll realize that you don’t have enough

to buy it,

you’ll just regret having tried them on.



Don’t buy it,

if you have reservations.



You judge the best pair

according to your criteria

because you’ll be the one

to wear it everyday.



And once you finally

got the perfect pair.

You know you

just can’t do without it.



Go with your good feeling

Before you actually

Regret when somebody else

have bought the shoes.

A lesson from the sand

“You can’t hold everything in the palm of your hand,


no matter what you do to make them stay,

and

no matter how much they want to cling with you.



So learn to let go

and choose carefully whom


you want to stay,

because

like the sand

only those

in the center of your palm

will last.

two-faced clown

There are people who keep what they feel…


They still smile, even though it hurts…

They pretend to be fine even if they’re not…

They seem to be strong even if inside

they are almost dying…


and you know what it’s hard to say this moment????



…that sometimes



“I AM ONE OF THOSE.”

where you belong...

We write our own series…


and each time we do it,

we think, we know the end.

But actually,
WE DON’T.


Luck exist somewhere between the world

of planning,
the world of chance and

in peace

that comes

from knowing

you just can’t know and have it all.


Life’s running that way-

And once you let go of the wheel

You might end up



where you really belong.

eternally uncertain

“just when my mind found the answers…




my heart changed the question.”



:'(

from SHREK with love

When we fall seriously in love,

we always wish that

the feeling

would mutually grow & stay forever.



But sometimes,

no matter how perfect

a relationship may seem…


PEOPLE JUST CHANGE
&
FORGET THEIR
PROMISES OF FOREVER…

nothing comes for free

There are sacrifices that seem worthwhile


and


there are sacrifices that you can’t even figure out


why you’re doing it.


A wise man said that you can have everything in this world

if you sacrifice everything for it.




But what he meant was…

“nothing comes without a price.”


So before you go into battle,


you better decide how much you're willing to lose.


Too often,


going after what feels good


means letting go of what you know is right,


and letting someone in

means abandoning the walls


you've spent a lifetime building.

Of course,


the toughest sacrifices


are the ones


we don't see coming,


when we don't have time to come up


with a strategy to pick a side


or to measure the potential loss.


When that happens,


when the battle chooses us

and not the other way around,


that's when the sacrifice


can turn out to be more than we can bear."

survival

Life is a constant battle for survival,

and as we grow older,

the rules change on daily basis…



Our mission is not to escape,


but to survive.



Not to deal with triumph,


but to deal with failure.


Not to run away with fear,

but to master it.


It takes courage to keep on fighting.

So if you feel right the rules have shifted one step higher.

Deal with it with greater faith.


God is our strength.

hour glass

Don’t always say that


“there’s still time…”



Because there is also the concept of

“too late..”

Deja Vu

There was a time when I felt really bad about someone.

I got drunk…

Spent every night crying, drinking and partying…



Then someone came


and



made me realize

that better things happen…

that life isn’t about getting hurt

but rising up each you fall…


Yes, he made me forget my painful past.



Yet,


here he is…



starting


another one..


:’(

Revelations

You cannot hide a fire behind paper.







All your ugly little secrets shall be revealed in time.