Showing posts with label defending yourself. Show all posts
Showing posts with label defending yourself. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Maybe sometimes you have to stop waiting for someone to come along and fix what's wrong.

Maybe you have to stop feeling sorry for yourself and realize that no one else has the answer.

Maybe sometimes you just have to be your own hero.

Friday, February 25, 2011

think again

If he acts like you're not worth his time,


Maybe you're not what he wants..


you're just a replacement for what he can't have..

Thursday, February 3, 2011

go on

Good memories tell you that your past was worth it,

bad ones tell you that you were strong enough

to go on.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

save some self-respect

If relationship becomes painful,

let it go and save yourself.

Remember: you will be able to find new love

but never another self.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

there's hope...

I've hit rock bottom so many times that

I couldn't even count them anymore even if I include my toes.

But I'm glad that I did because

I wouldn't be this strong and invincible to pain;

I wouldn't have known my true friends;

I wouldn't have loved my family more.

And I am more than ever confident to myself

and faithful to God.

Cheers to life! :)

Saturday, October 23, 2010

X X X

What I love about my ex boyfriend is he is somebody else's problem now.

-Ruffa G.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Matchbox 20

Hurt is a funny thing.

Even though it makes you feel weak inside,

it actually makes you stronger.

sail on

It is not good to hate all roses because you got pricked by one thorn;

to lose faith in prayers because one wasn’t answered;

to give up on your efforts because one of them failed;

to stop believing in love because someone didn’t love you back;

to throw away all your chances to be happy because you didn’t succeed on the first attempt.

Life isn’t about giving up


but learning how to

sail on.

THAT Person

You should love the person who has been with through the most trying times -

who lied just to make you fell better...

who never stopped believing your weird & complicated excuses...

who faced the consequences of your stupidity...

who cried with you when nobody seemed to care enough to extend a hand or least to know and acknowledge your feelings...

who fought every heartache and pain when the one you loved broke your heart...


who encouraged your to stand up & move on after every downfall...


Love this person for he's all... you got.

Want to know who?

Face the mirror-

THAT PERSON deserves your love too

Thursday, June 3, 2010

game over

Players never change,

you might have won your game,

but you lost me.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

for the better part

I would rather choose to be silent than to risk uttering words

I may regret in the end.

Sometimes,

silence offers better options

than speaking something

which could not be

understood.

Monday, April 12, 2010

until I walked away

Someday you are going to wake up and realize that you had every single thing you ever wanted. You were just too stupid to notice it, until I walked away...

Saturday, February 20, 2010

then don't quit...

The pain is temporary… it may last a minute, an hour, a day, or a year…

But eventually it will subside and something else will take its place.

If I quit…

however,

it will last forever.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

not always the same thing

Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't

appreciate you the way you should be appreciated.

Don't ever settle for mediocrity,

for being just an option,

for being the one who's just fun to be with,

for being the one who's always there desperately waiting,

for mere concern

or pity

or for someone who likes you just

because he knows he's got the power to break you.

It is better to have nobody

than somebody who is half yours,

half there

or doesn't want to be there,

or is there and then suddenly disappears.

You can be in love

and you can be in a relationship.

But they're not always the same thing.

Friday, October 23, 2009

good karma

They that sow in tears shall reap in joy...

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

she isn't coming back...

You can only push a girl away for so long until she walks out of your life on her own.

So be careful and make sure this is what you want.

Because once she turns around, she isn`t coming back

maybe... and I will

And maybe after this, we'll never see each other again. And maybe we will. And
maybe I'll meet up with you again in 10 years, or maybe 20. And maybe you'll
still be single, or married. And maybe I'll be as well. And maybe you'll ask me
if I want to go for coffee, and maybe I will. Or maybe I won't because it could
bring back old feelings again. But for now, I'm not gonna worry about the maybes
or the what-ifs; I'm just going to continue living my life the best way I can.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

so let them be...

In life there are lots of people watching our next move.

Desperately waiting for us to fail and even praying for us to give up.

They are some who even give comments just basing on the outside.

For that, let’s laugh and pity those who judge us without knowing the real us.

So let them be…

It just doubles the fun of living and surviving!

Let’s keep in mind that failures and problems are not things to be scared of-

They could sometimes lead to breakthroughs and great discoveries…

Sunday, March 29, 2009

get up and fight

You have a choice.

Either let him destroy you,

or get up & fight.

Friday, November 21, 2008

true... somehow

Those who are bitter are STRONGER individuals.


Want to know WHY?


Because STRONG people know how to control their emotions.


And BITTER people know when to realize that it's ENOUGH and it's OVER.


BITTERNESS is not totally a negative thing.


It's just a way of showing to that one person
that in life, there is such thing as I still love you
but
I do not want you anymore.

 
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