it's called self-respect...

At times you just have to try not to care no matter how much you do because sometimes you can mean nothing to someone who means everything to you. It’s not pride.

It’s called self-respect.

how do you overcome sadness?

Sometimes I find myself incredibly disconnected,
like I was here for the wrong reason at the wrong time...
I’m sad,
& I don’t know how long I’m going to be like this.
But I think as long as I cling to the things that I miss,
I would be like this for the long period of time...
how do you overcome sadness?
Am I that strong to let go of the things
that make me sad knowing that
it’s the same thing that makes me happy?

so let them be...

In life there are lots of people watching our next move.

Desperately waiting for us to fail and even praying for us to give up.

They are some who even give comments just basing on the outside.

For that, let’s laugh and pity those who judge us without knowing the real us.

So let them be…

It just doubles the fun of living and surviving!

Let’s keep in mind that failures and problems are not things to be scared of-

They could sometimes lead to breakthroughs and great discoveries…

live it well

You messed up yesterday…

You said the wrong words…

Took the wrong turn…

Loved the wrong person…

Reacted the bad way…

You spoke when you should have listened…

Walked when you should have waited…

Judged when you should have trusted…

Indulged when you should have resisted…

You messed up yesterday.

But you’ll mess it up more if you let yesterday’s mistakes

Ruined today’s attitude.

Today’s a new day.

LIVE IT WELL.

The Neurotics Book

The chief reason for drinking is the desire to behave in a certain way and be able to blame it on alcohol.

lub dub

Scientifically, a person's heart beats twice in a single beat, "lub,
dub."

Figuratively, it beats for itself and for another person.

Maybe that's why cardiologist claim a third beat as abnormal.

:)

but I've learned

I don’t really believed in the word “REGRET”…

because I stick to this belief that


“I messed up but I’ve learned.”

you'll be the standard

Carry yourself in such a way that when the people of the world are sitting, you would be standing.

And when the world is standing, you’ll stand out.

And when the world stands out, you’ll be outstanding.

And when the world dares to be outstanding, you’ll be the STANDARD.

doesn't mean...

Just because one person doesn’t seem to care for you

Doesn’t mean that you should forget about everyone else who does.

harsh truth

Sometimes, when people decide to leave you for good, you have to let them.

No matter how much you don’t want them to go.

There are some things that are far beyond our control.

And even if you have the strength to fight them,

You have to accept the cold,

Harsh truth-

That some people you can’t live without,

Can live –

WITHOUT you.

take the risk

We spend our days waiting for the ideal path to appear in front of us.

But we forget that paths are made by walking…

Not by waiting..

self-check

As you get older, every choice that you make defines who you’re going to turn into…
And every once in a while,
You need to look at yourself
and ask if you like the person you’re becoming.

looking outside the box

Don’t look for people or things that aren’t there,

Just always be thankful for what you have,

because the more you look for something you don’t have,

the more you find something wrong with what you have.

maybe a happy ending...

Maybe a happy ending doesn’t include someone.

Maybe it’s you on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over…

Freeing yourself up for something better in the future.

Maybe the happy ending is just moving on.

Or maybe the happy ending is this:

Knowing that after all

the unreturned calls,

broken hearts,

through the blunders

and misread signals

through all the pain

and embarrassment,

you never gave up

HOPE.

when you come to the end...

When you come to the end of all the light you know,

and it's time to step into the darkness of the unknown,

faith is knowing that one of two things shall happen:

Either you will be given something solid to stand on

or you will be taught to fly.

on wishing and waiting

We grow old and suddenly we want to hurry things.

Don’t commit when you’re not ready.

To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a cat or a puppy.

Don’t bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.

To keep yourself warm, buy a jacket.

In the long run, it will be less complicated and costly.

Take care of yourself.

Don’t wait for someone to take care of you.

No one completes you- except you.

Someday someone may come along and love you the way you’ve always dream of

but for the meantime rely on yourself.

Being independent would give you more time to love yourself

And would give you the opportunity to search for your own happiness without relying

on wishing and waiting.

I'll never let go...

One day Jesus and a man were crossing a narrow bridge.

The man held Jesus’ hand.

Jesus said, “No, I’ll hold your hand.”

The man asked, “What’s the difference?”

Jesus said, “If you hold my hand, you might let go, but if I hold your hand, I’ll never let go…”

the difference between love and attraction

A guy had a crush on this girl, he follows her whenever she goes.

One day the girl noticed and asked the guy…

Girl: Why do you keep on following me???

Guy: Because you’re so pretty and I think I am falling for you.

Girl: Really? But you haven’t met my friend yet, she’s prettier than me and she’s at your back.

The guy turned his back but no one was there.

Guy: Are you making fun of me? Nobody’s there…

Girl: No, but if you really love me you won’t look back.

suicide

Perfecting a relationship with the wrong person is like

perfecting an exam you didn’t study for…

You know your efforts won’t be enough

But you’d still kill yourself trying. :(

7 Rules of Life

1. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.



2. What others think of you is none of your business.



3. Time heals almost everything, give it time.



4. Don’t compare your life to others and don’t judge them. You have no idea what their journey is all about.



5. Stop thinking too much, it’s alright not to know the answers. They will come to you when you least expect it.



6. No one is in charge of your happiness, except you.



7. Smile. You don’t own all the problems in the world. 

side effects

Sometimes, we get too possessive with something



Or someone we don’t even own…




It’s a side effect of loving too much…


And receiving too little.


:(

of taking chances

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about taking chances…




And how it’s really just about overcoming your fears…




Because the truth is,




every time you take a big risk in your life,




no matter how it ends up,





you’re always glad you took it…