just wait for the day

When love gets elusive and the pain becomes so much inevitable

yet your heart still waits for the love that was lost…

Don’t fight.

Instead feel everything what your heart wants to feel

and you’ll find out one day that your heart managed

to fix its own wound.

And the person you once loved

and longed for…

suddenly couldn’t make your day anymore.

it's a matter of chance and choice

Not everything falls on "it's a matter of choice.."

It's more of "it's a matter of chance and choices".

Sometimes, the chance is right in front of us but we're just to blind to see or undecided to grab it.

At times, when we're finally going to make a choice, it's already too late and we can't do anything about it anymore.

Bottom line, we always have a choice, it's that the chance that's not always there to wait.

So be alert, the moment it pass out of your hand, you'll never have the chance to get it back

then don't quit...

The pain is temporary… it may last a minute, an hour, a day, or a year…

But eventually it will subside and something else will take its place.

If I quit…

however,

it will last forever.

not always the same thing

Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't

appreciate you the way you should be appreciated.

Don't ever settle for mediocrity,

for being just an option,

for being the one who's just fun to be with,

for being the one who's always there desperately waiting,

for mere concern

or pity

or for someone who likes you just

because he knows he's got the power to break you.

It is better to have nobody

than somebody who is half yours,

half there

or doesn't want to be there,

or is there and then suddenly disappears.

You can be in love

and you can be in a relationship.

But they're not always the same thing.

How can someone change reality?

I no longer believe in what they say it’s just a matter of choice.

No, life’s not like that.

The reality with life and love is it always leaves us

with no options at hand that all we have to do

is to live with it

and just look for the lessons

and experiences we could get out of it.

We could no longer choose when the reality is already there,

right in front of us.

How can someone change reality?

MOVE ON.

Moving on doesn’t really mean forgetting

and leaving everything behind.

Sometimes,

moving on also means accepting reality

and that is accepting

this is what its meant to be.

little things you must understand

I know its hard to believe when they say "I know how you feel"

But I actually know..

I understand how painful it is.

And it doesnt matter how many haircuts you get,

or gyms you join

or how many glasses of wine you have with your girlfriends,

you still go to bed every night,

going every detail,

and wonder everything that might have been the cause.

And sometimes you would even convince yourself

that he'll see the light and show at your door.

Yet I asure you

after all of these,

however long that may be,

you'll meet people who make you feel

worthwhile again

and little pieces of your soul will

finally come back...

you just have to wait

and keep on holding on.