from Gigi with love

I may dissect each little thing and put myself out there so much but at least that means that I still care.

Oh! You've think you won because women are expendable to you.

You may not get hurt or make an ass of yourself that way but you don't fall in love that way either.

You have not won.

You're alone.

I may do a lot of stupid sh*t

but I'm still a lot closer to love than you are.

~Gigi, "He’s Not that Into You"

Fallacy II

Love is not always as they say blind.

A LOT OF TIMES, it's the people who make it blind and stupid.

a simple fact

Being single

doesn't

mean

being

ALONE.

DIY

Dont be disappointed if the world refuses to help you.

Remember the words of Einstein:

"im thankful to those who said NO,

because of them i did it MYSELF.

=)

some are just meant to be alone...

Lonely people...

they always have a look,

a look that it could change any second,

maybe with the next person that enters the room.

She was just sad, like she knew too much.

Some people find love, permanent;

some are just meant to be alone.

She knew what she was."

~ Jason, "The Real World"

this Lullaby

"I knew that there were no guarantees.

No way of knowing what came next for me,

for him,

or anybody.

Some things don’t last forever,

but some things do.

Like a good song,

or a good book,

or a good memory you can take out

and unfold in your darkest times,

pressing down the corners

and peering in close,

hoping you still...

recognize the person you see there."

for the better part

I would rather choose to be silent than to risk uttering words

I may regret in the end.

Sometimes,

silence offers better options

than speaking something

which could not be

understood.

never-ending search

The truth is, I probably don't want to be too happy or content,

'cause then what?

I actually like the quest, the search.

That's the fun.

The more lost you are,

the more you have to look forward to.

What do you know?

I'm having a great time

and I don't even know it."

~ Ally Mcbeal

hello sunshine!

We all get blinded by our desperate acts of finding who we are.

There’s no way for us to ever find ourselves if we are too busy looking for someone else that isn’t us.

Learn to appreciate the YOU in you and after a while you’ll really see that your place under the sun isn’t really so far away-

it’s just around the corner, waiting for you to say hello.

The Fringe Benefits of Failure

You might never fail on the scale I did, but some failure in life is inevitable.

It is impossible to live without failing at something,

unless you live so cautiously that you might

as well not have lived at all

– in which case, you fail by default.

~JK Rowling

work it out!

You've got to shake yourself out of that VICTIM mentality

and start having a VICTORY mentality.

This is a new day.

Your future can start right now.

It doesn't matter what you've been through,

or how they treated you;

GOD WANTS TO TURN ALL THAT AROUND.

So work it out! =)

a tortured soul

You eat alone.

You walk the streets alone.

No messages received for the day.

You wonder and think about what lies ahead trying to convince yourself that

"everything will be all right".

But you know at the end of the day,

you would still question your solitary existence.

Now, I know how it feels to be lonely...

until I walked away

Someday you are going to wake up and realize that you had every single thing you ever wanted. You were just too stupid to notice it, until I walked away...

The White Queen

You don't have to live your life the way other people expect you to; it has to be your CHOICE...'cause when you'll step up to defeat the monster, you'll step up ALONE..." ~ White Queen

she deserved the world

We could only wonder how she would be able to dust herself off and start over...

& felt ever more optimistic that after all her struggles,

she would someday meet her man, her equal:

a man with the same charisma,

love of life,

& humanity she possessed.

In the meantime,

she'd have her friends.

And the knowledge

that she deserved the world." ~Sex & the City

maybe someday

maybe, when that time comes,

we'll be laughing at our old dumb selves,


realizing how stupid we were to stand up for the the things we knew


weren't really meant for us.. :'(

a never ending question...

Often it is the most deserving people who can't help loving those who destroy them.

~Francois de la Rochofoucauld

Why isn’t love enough?

Alice: Will you hold me? I amuse you, but I bore you.

Dan: No, no.

Alice: You did love me?

Dan: I’ll always love you. I hate hurting you.

Alice: Why are you...?

Dan: Because I’m selfish. And I think I’ll be happier with her.

Alice: You won’t. You’ll miss me. No one will ever love you as much as I do. Why isn’t love enough?

it's about "truth and realities"

In the cruel world of love..

we've learned that promises aren't contracts,

kisses aren't assurances,

sweet words aren't guarantees,

big hugs aren't bonds,

and that nothings permanent in this life.

One day he's mine,

the next day he's gone,

last night he was sweet,

the next morning he's insensitive.

Loving someone is not

always about fairy tales and fantasies

it's about "truth and realities."