They say actions speak LOUDER than words…

Just say what you mean
and
mean what you say.



Don’t expect someone to read your mind
and
don’t play games with heads or hearts.



Don’t tell half-truths
and
expect trust when the
truth comes out.
Half-truths are no better than lies.


Don’t be cold to someone
you care about.
Indifference hurts more than angry words.


They say actions speak LOUDER than words…


But a lot of times,





It’s better to have both.

the only thing that is constant is CHANGE

As we grow up,


we learn that even the one person


that wasn't supposed to ever let you down,


probably will.


You will have your heart broken,


probably more then once,


and it gets harder every time.


You'll break hearts too,


so remember how it felt when yours was broken.


You'll fight with your best friend


and you might even


fall in love with them.


You'll blame a new love for things


that an old one did.


You'll cry because time

is passing so fast

and you'll eventually lose


someone you care about.


So take too many pictures,

laugh too hard


and love like you've never been hurt,


because every minute you spend

mad or upset


is


a moment of happiness


you'll never get back.

a poem of practising goodbye

I’m trying to convince

myself

that

I’ll find someone new...


that

I won't be alone...

even if


I won't be with you anymore.



If you're waiting for me


to crawl back


to your side,


this time,


I won't.


I decided to


keep my pride.


So farewell forever,


I’ll be on my way,


It may take a while

and it may be painful for me


but

I’ll


just keep on


practising

goodbye


until

I'll

finally

forgive

and

forget

you...

no better time than NOW

Funny,

how we try to convince


ourselves

to look forward to every milestone

that life

would be better.

And we get frustrated every time.

The truth is,

there is no better time to be happy

than

NOW.

If not, then when???

Your life will always be full of challenges.

It is better to decide to be happy

in spite of all the hardships.

There isn’t any road to happiness.




HAPPINESS IS THE ROAD.




So

enjoy every moment of your life. :)

Animal or Man????

Common excuses of men

in the issues of

flirting with another woman is...



It is

"men's basic instinct..."



But

remember

that what


separate men


from animals


is

CONSCIENCE,



so when you hear



that lame excuse again,







ASK YOURSELF



if you are


still


with

a


MAN



or


an

ANIMAL...

losing yourself

People always think that the most painful thing

is

losing the one you love in your life.


The truth is,

The most painful part is…

Losing yourself

in the process


of

loving so much

then

realized

it wasn’t

really

worth

it

at

all.

LOVE & DEATH

Love


and


Death


are two



uninvited guests.



Nobody knows when they will come....



but both do the same work.



One takes the HEART...


&


the


other


takes its BEAT......

they almost had it all...

One night a boy asked his girl to marry him.



The girl gave him a challenge-
to live a day without her.



He could only talk to her after 24 hours.
The girl promised to marry him if he passes the challenge.


The boy agreed not knowing his sweetheart is suffering from a sickness and she’s not really sure whether she would be able to last a day afterwards.




At the end of the day, he visited her to ask her to marry him.




The girl was already dead.



She left a note saying:

“Baby you did it… can you do it again… everyday??? :’(

status=quo

If you're trying to show-off for people at the top,


forget it.

They will look down on you anyhow...

And

if you're trying to show-off for people at the bottom,


forget it.

They will envy you...

Status will get you nowhere.


Only an open heart will


allow you float


equally






between





everyone.

The Power of Time

It’s amazing how Time could erase every hurt or pain. But it somehow ends everything as it makes them impermanent. It has the power to heal but also, the power to hurt you through making you remember what it had finally brought to an end. It’s really so heartrending to notice that every time you come across a familiar scent, a song, or maybe a long-lost friend, every has-beens that you cherished for the past years just come back like a series of movie trailers. It makes you happy and at the same time sad, for while it surely brings you more vivid imagery than your memory could conjure, it reminds you in a nostalgic way that because of Time, beautiful things don’t really last.






:(




-mimiku

faking the world with smiles

There’s no point of sacrificing your happiness when it does not conform to what your heart dictates.




As everyone is created uniquely,





everyone does get a right to choose where and how to be happy.


If it ensures lifetime happiness,




then go for it.

You wouldn’t want





a miserable life






faking the world




with smiles.


:(

eversince you came along

It would be wrong to tell you that I can’t live without you,







because I’ve lived my life even before you came…







So instead,






I’ll just say,






"My life has been the greatest ever since you came along…"

losing game

Someone


saw me trying


to find something,



he asked


what


i was


looking for...???



I answered,



"My Life."


He asked,


"Did you lose It???"




I said,


Yes... and sadly



I wasted and lose


it


over



someone


not

even


worth

it."


:'(

answered prayer

Before,




I asked God to give me someone special to love.




I found you








then


lost you.




I asked God why







and He answered,







“But my child,







the one you asked for





asked




for




somebody else.”



:(

like i did yesterday

Whenever a guy hurts you so badly, don’t ever say you hate him.








Just wait until he asks, “Do you hate me?”







then just answer,





“I don’t love you enough to hate you.”

practice makes perfect

"I just keep practicing saying goodbye to you"









-Bleach

too well-remembered

"Often



the greatest




enemy


of the



present


happiness



is past


happiness


that is


too


well


remembered..."





-Oscar Hamming

not remembering

You can't force yourself to forget something...







Because the only reason why we forget,





is when a better memory


has taken








it's


place.

testimonial

"If i hadn't once lost the person I LOVED the most...




I probably would never have learned to love myself as much..."

F.L.I.R.T.S

Never assume that somebody


loves you


by only seeing


their sweetness.


Sometimes


we should


believe in


the fact


that some


people


are


just


F.L.I.R.T.S



:'(

the simple truth about truth

it hurts...



















so we lie...


:(

This is a retake of my life

I was his for many nights.

Now the roles have changed...

and you’re the leading lady in his life.

Lights

camera

action!

Now you’re on.

Just remember,

you’ve been warned.

Enjoy it now

because it won’t last.

Same script,

different cast.

:'(

un-fair-y tale awakening

As a little girl,





I believed in wands,







fairies and fairytales.



When you came,





I believed in




prince charming too.






But you made it hard for me






to believe in





happy-ever-after






so I decided to leave.




Not because




I don’t love you anymore







but because





little girls




grow up





too.

superwoman

People say I’m strong


because I’m numb



to any pain.






Actually,







it's my





special technique..




what they don't know is that








I had to





break my heart







a million times






to master it..


:(

the painful side of goodbyes

Goodbyes make you think...


They make you realize

what you’ve had,


what you’ve lost


and


what you’ve taken for granted.


They make you realize


that sometimes

there are no next times,


no time outs


and


no second

chances.

somedays

Someday someone might come into your life



in a way you’ve always wanted.





If your someday


was yesterday,


learn.






If your someday





is tomorrow,





hope.







If your someday








is today,




cherish.

^^^

lamentations

Loving you made me strong

But it also made me weak.

It made me happy

but also depressed.

It held me up

but also pulled me down.

It taught me how to hold on

but now it's teaching me to let go.

I'm not so hellbent bitter over you

Watching you walk out of my life


does not make me bitter about love.



Rather,



it makes me realize



that if I wanted to be





with the wrong person


so much,




then how great it will be




when the right one


comes along.



^^

c-o-m-p-l-e-t-e

Love is a noble act of self-giving.





The more you love,





the more you lose a part of you.





Yet


you do not become


less of who you are.


In fact,


you end up




being





complete.

Southpark magic

Love isn't a decision, it's a feeling.



If we could decide who to love,







then life would be much




simpler







but then,








less magical."

till death do us part...

If you love something set it free.


If it comes back,

it will always be yours.



If it doesn't come back,


it was never yours to begin with.


But, if it just sits in your living room,


messes up your stuff,

eats your food,


uses your telephone,


takes your money


and doesn't appear to realize


you had set it free...


then you either


married it or


gave birth to it.


^^

what makes him cry

You’ll learn to like someone when you find out what makes him laugh...






but you can never truly love someone






until




you find out



what makes him




cry.

of scraped knees and broken hearts...

When I was a child,


I couldn’t wait to fall in love.



When I finally did,



I realized that a scraped knee



is much easier to heal



than a



broken heart…


:'(

photographs of memories

Looking at pictures

sometimes makes

our hearts ache

because it reminds us

that these photos were

now merely a glimpse

of what it used to be.


It sad

to think

that what you saw on

those photos

could only

be something

that would never happen again.

Seeing faces

that would only tell

you that we used to have that smile

with those people...

and if you think of it,

only time will

tell if you'll ever cross paths with them again.


Lesson???


Cherish that person who you are with today,

because what you have right now

may only last for a moment. :)

it's not really about love

Sometimes,


it's not love...


sometimes,


you've just become so attached


that you've developed


a need

for that person -


just a NEED


not LOVE.


But you're too scared to admit it,


even to yourself.

Because if you do,

you might lose the person


that actually gives

a damn meaning


about your life...

:(

sunsets & goodbyes

I wonder why

the sunset

is more colorful

than sunrise...


Guess it's

the irony of life...



"sometimes better things could really happen in saying goodbye."





^~^

to the left...

The heart is the center


of our chest



but it beats at the left side.



I guess that’s


the reason



why the heart


isn’t always right.

one glass of milk

Sometimes in life,






you really have to decide


whether


you're half-full

or half-empty.


It may


appear the same,


but it doesn't feel the same. :)



think about it...

i am so single

It is tough to stay single in this world


where everybody


expects you


to be with somebody.


What they fail to realize


is that staying single


is not about having no choice.





Rather,


it’s an opportunity



to make intelligent choices.

the sound of silence

When I found out that I’m in love with you,



you know what I did?







I just kept quiet.



Why?




Because



even if I tell it






to the whole world..







it would only hurt





to see that




everybody



is listening..






except you..:'(

he loves me... he loves me not

“You can love two people at the same time…





But never at the same degree…”

sweet puppy love

A stranger approached a kid & asked,



what is love?







The kid answered,





hmmmmm...




love is like.....








when a puppy


leaps in your arms,






even after you left him







alone all day.




^^ ^^

too much ambivalence

I hate forcing myself


to let go

of the special


person that


i need in my life.


I know,


giving up is the only thing that


makes sense


but

at the same time


it's the thing that


complicates me.


I know very well


that I'm so much


better off without it,


yet i feel empty


whenever i try to let go...


Now,

tell me,

is emptiness


better

than constant hurting???

i'm not really over you

Sometimes you think



you’re already



over the person




but once you see him smile,







you suddenly realize







that you’re only pretending







to be over him








in a desperate




attempt to ease



the pain.




so true :(

Did you know that tears can sometimes be more special than smiles?

For smiles

can be given

to anyone

but tears

are only shed

for people

we don't want

to loose.

in perfect harmony...

Love asked teardrop:



"Why do people always relate me to you?"








Teardrop answered:






"because once you come..











I never fail



to follow.."

what comes around... goes around

I loved you


but you never noticed...




I told you about my feelings


but you didn't believe me...




I was about to leave


and say goodbye



but then


you stopped me and said,



"I made a mistake"









I replied




"…I'm sorry,



so did I"

someone who changed your life the most...

Its hard to let go of someone who has touched your life..







But it hurts more to let go of someone who was never yours..









But changed your life the most…




='(

never won :(

The greatest battle ever fought by anyone


is the


battle of LOVE


that can’t be yours…


no matter how strong your shield is


or how sharp your sword…



you always end up


bleeding and


the hurt will never


be concealed…


for the wound of the heart



will leave a scar


that will remind you of a



battle


that

caused you to


die

continuosly

but


was


never


won…

the rain reminds me of...

how cold you are...


how gloomy you made me feel...



how much tears was shed because of you...



how much damage you've caused...



and most of all…



of how stupid I am...






for still





wanting to dance





in the rain... :(

but not everyone :(

Before saying




I LOVE YOU FOREVER


ask yourself


if you're ready



because most of us are


indeed


willing to LOVE



but not


everyone



is prepared


to face




FOREVER...




so true :(

One day, love and friendship met on the road of life..

love asked,


"what your use when I already exist?"


friendship smiled,



"I’m here to put a smile..








when you put tears in their eyes.."

confessions of a heartbroken smoker

As I light a cigarette, I can't help thinking why I smoke?


It doesn't do me any good.


It burns my lips,


hurts my eyes,


and as I inhale its dark smoke,


it brings pain to my chest


and take me to a state where loneliness and emptiness reside.


As I throw it's butt,


I promised that I would never light another stick again..


Yet its scent haunts...


What the hell.


I took out another stick


and realized I'm already hooked.


It's just like a destructive love...



passionate

yet,



harmful








and


addictive...

:(

i forgot to live

First I was dying to finish high school and start college.


And then I was dying to finish college and start working.


Then I was dying to marry and have children.


And then I was dying to grow my children old enough for school so I could return work.



Then I was dying to retire.


And now, I am dying...



And suddenly




I realize



I forgot to live.

not knowing is the worst feeling of all

Knowing is better than wondering,



waking is better than sleeping,




and even the biggest failure,



even the worst


beat the hell out of never trying.






Whoever said that







"what you don't know can't hurt you"






was a complete and total moron.



Because for the most I know,




not knowing is the worst feeling in the world.


:(


-grey's anatomy

Love at first sight is easy to understand

It's when two people have been looking at


each other for a lifetime








that it becomes


a miracle.



-Amy Bloom

In life, only one thing is certain apart from death and taxes.

No matter how hard you try,


how good your intentions,


you are going to make mistakes,


you’re going to hurt people,


you’re going to get hurt.


And if you ever want to recover,


there’s really


one thing you could say:






“I forgive you”

you always come home to

The most important thing in life is your family.



There are days you love them,



and others you don't,


but in the end


they're the people


you always come home to.



Sometimes


it's the family you're born into...



and sometimes


it's the one you make for yourself.

:)

by the time you realize

By the time you realize that what your parents said were right…







you already have a child who’s beginning to think








you’re wrong.

turns into

“The worst pain in life


is when


someone you


know


turns


into someone


you knew..”

How do you draw a line between LOVE & FRIENDSHIP?

In friendship,


we create love...



In love,



we risk friendship...




It's really hard.




But I guess,


sometimes...



wanting more



means losing




everything. :'(

and so on...

Its not being unloved by someone that sucks.

What's even more pathetic,



is when someone claims to love you wholeheartedly,



and with so much passion that he knows








you’re the one for him,





and he still feels that much,






and even more ,






the next week,






and the week after that…





















...only,







its for






a different person





each

time.


:(

only way is up

A child asked his father:



"Why do i need to be humble?"




Then the father said:




"When you choose the lowly path,



there is


no place to fall




&



the only way



is




up"



^_^

What's the worst thing that could happen in your sleep?

It's when all you want is peace of mind,




then suddenly,




you dream




about the person





who makes you







cry



at


night.




:'(

until you fall in love

Human brain is invincible.



It works 24 hours a day...




7 days a week...



It works even when we are sleeping,




it never stops working…




Until



you







fall in-love.



:(

maybe it's worth going this far...

Sometimes you just want to quit
when things start hurting you...



you want to leave everything as it is
before the pain gets worse...



But once you remembered

how much you've prayed,

how much you really wanted it,

and

why you were fighting in the first place,



hope


comes


back

into


your heart


and

maybe...


just maybe...



It's worth going this far...