Friday, May 30, 2008

3 stages of L-i-f-e


You have all the time & energy

but no money.


You have all the money & energy

but no time.


You have all the time & money

but no more energy.

Enjoy life! Never take it for granted because we're only given two GIFTS in every passing moment.

because they're all the same

They laugh at me because I'm different...


I laugh at them

because they're

all the SAME.

It's not that I like being different-

I just don't see the point of trying to be like

everyone else.

we make a life by what we give. :)

What we've done for ourselves dies with us

but what we've done for others remain.

We make a living by what we get


we make a life by what we give. :)

sincerely, dr. house

The most interesting thing about heart transplant is that one completely loses his heart and be replaced by someone else's yet still has the feelings for the same person he or she loves.

This proves that love works inthe minds of people and not in their hearts.

Bottomline is, love is a state of mind.

You'll learn how to forget only if you try doing so.

Thursday, May 29, 2008

that even the truth...


someone can mean

so much to you…

That even the truth

can't change your mind.


The Hebrew Talmud says:

“Be very careful if you make a woman cry

because God counts her tears.

The woman came out of a man’s rib,

not from his feet to be walked on.

Not from his head to be superior of,

but from the side to be equal with.

Under the arm to be protected for

and next to the heart

to be loved.”

your own HERO

Maybe sometimes

you'll have to stop waiting

for someone to come along and fix what's wrong.


you have to stop

feeling sorry for yourself

and realize

that no one else

has right answer.

Maybe sometimes

you'll just have to be…

your own


better to get lost moving on

When you have found a reason to

walk away...

never look back.

just go on walking...

For it's better

to get lost moving on,


to get stuck



stranded broken...

so damn true...

people with sense

when someone tells you you're not good enough

and you don't matter-

take it easy.


and say...

"People with sense don't entertain lies!"

Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Memories play a very confusing role…

They make you laugh

when you remember the time you cried together…

But make you cry

when you remember the time you laughed together.


If someone throws

you an insult,

just let that person do it.

He's not revealing

you but himself.

if they reject you,

let them.

It's not your loss but theirs.

Learn from them,

and they will


something from




it's in the attitude

We choose how we see people.

When we want to like someone, we can be so tolerant.

When we want to be irritated by people,

we focus on their faults.

It's not other people's behaviour

that determines how we

feel about them-

it's our attitude.

"God is sending me back my jewels again."

The queen of Sweden sold her jewels to provide her people with hospitals and orphanages.

One day she visited a convalescent home she had helped provide for.

When tears of gratitude from a bedridden woman fell on the royal hand, the queen exclaimed,

"God is sending me back my jewels again."

holds more meaning

People may doubt what you say,

but they'll always believe what you do..

"Well done"

holds more meaning than

'Well said"


And the truly intelligent person

We can be fine even when

others do not have a good opinion of us.

After all, what matters is not

what others think of us,

but what we think of ourselves.

And the truly intelligent person is one

who can pretend to be a fool

in front of a fool

who pretends

to be intelligent.

greatest weakness

"the greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how they love them while they are alive"

-optimus prime

Reality bites but we can never bite it back

We can pretend to be brave to conceal our fears;

pretend to be smart to conceal our insecurities;

pretend to be strong to conceal our weaknesses;

pretend to be happy to conceal our longings.

But no matter how much we pretend to conceal our negatives,

we will always be pierced by reality.

Maybe that’s what life is all about.

Reality bites but we can never bite it back. :'(

credits to

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

the way you made them feel

Everything you've done will become

someone else's memory..

The person might forget the exact

words you said but there's no

way to make them forget

the way

you made them feel..ü.


"the feeling of being O.K.

does not

imply that one has risen above

all his faults & emotional problems.

it merely implies that he/she


to be paralyzed by them."


than be saved with criticism


trouble with

most of us

is that

we would

rather be

ruined by praises

than be saved

by criticism.


There are 2 types of people:

those wh0 c0me into the r0om & say;

"well, here i am."

& th0se who come in & say:

"ah, there u are."

Makes sense. ü

risks co-exist with opportunities

if you do not go after you want,

somebody else will...

if you do not ask,

then you will never know...

if you do not step forward,

you will always be in the same place...

only those who risk can tell

how far they can go... ^^

who we really are

Life is like taking

our photographs.

We often pose the way we

want to be seen by others.

But sometimes,

by taking

stolen shots,

we capture who

we really are.ü

with what could be

always remember

that the longer you stay

with the things you don't really enjoy

equates to every moment

you lose

with what could be

a happy life..

If he's dumb enough

to walk away..

I'll be smart

enough to let him go.


that's all they are

It's impOrtant

to remember

that you can never


sOmethng you left in the past.

Change your fOcus to the present

and deal with the state of things

as they are,

instead Of clinging to

sOme memOry Of what you Once had.

MemOries are nice,

but that's

all they are.ü

you are not for them to keep

Not every seemingly good thing is good for us.

Not every beautiful thing is right.

Not all relationships are worth keeping.

Nor every person you love is worth it.

So when you lose something or somebody...

maybe you are not

meant to keep THEM



Y0u are not for them to keep.

make you forget

Neverlet the things you want..

Make you forget the things

you already have.

make you forget

"Neverlet the things you want..

Make you forget the things you

already have."

Life is like riding a bicycle…

in order to maintain balance

you have to keep moving on… ü

Keep this concepts in mind-

you've failed many times although

you dont remember...

you fell down the first time you tried to walk...

you almost drowned the first time you tried to swim...

Dont worry about failure....

worry about the


you miss when you don't even try.

how little things

A wasted m0ment can make you regret so bad..

A single mistake can change your whole life..

Fr0m then, you'll see h0w the

little things you

ign0re meant

everything when they're g0ne.

Monday, May 26, 2008

dancing in the rain

“If you think happiness

is all about sunshine,

then nobody

has told you

about dancing

in the rain.”:)


All the village people decided

to pray

for the rain to come.

On the day of prayer,

all came but only one

boy brought



That’s FAITH! :)

Sunday, May 25, 2008

my grade school assignment

when i was in grade school,

they told me to write what

i wanted to be when i grow up.

i wrote down“happy.’

they told me i didn’t understand the assignment…

i told them they didn’t understand life.

“its easy to get something by means of hardwork,

but it doesn’t necessarily mean

that you’ll find happiness in it.”

yesterday ended last night

For years I kept a sign in my room

that helped me maintain

the right perspective

concerning yesterday.

It simply said..

“YesterdayEnded Last Night..”

It reminded me

that no matter how

badly I might have

failed in the past,

it’s done,

& today is a new day to make things better.

:) credits to

--Spongebob Squarepants Philosophy of LOVE--

"Love is like handing someone a gun,

having them point it at

your heart and trusting

them to never pull the triger."



some people spent their lives

looking for that perfect person but when they were able to

find him/her

they change their minds

thinking that it's not yet the right time

to have a serious commitment.

but while waiting,

they didn't realize that too much time

had passed and

everything had already


They could no longer turn back time.

Lesson learned:







only one person is missing

but the world seems to be so...


Saturday, May 24, 2008


I always thought that

love can melt away the pain

no matter how painful it is...

but I've realized

that pain can melt LOVE


no matter

how great the

love is.

Friday, May 23, 2008

not about "never looking back"

Moving on is not about

"never looking back."

It's taking a glance

at yesterday and noticing

how much you've


since then.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

love is just a word...



special would


and give you

its proper meaning.


when it hurts a lot it means you have to stop

When you know that someone is hurting you so much,

just stop...


the pain you feel means you have to let go.

DOn't push yourself too hard

because in the end, you don't really

have to get the approval of anyone just to make yourself complete.

You are You.

and no one in this world would ever take your worth away from you.

does he miss me???

i don't know

if he

still thinks of me.

But somehow I'm trying to get used to it.

Yet it gets


and harder each day...

knowing that

"I miss someone

who never misses me..."


Monday, May 19, 2008

practical t-r-a-n-s-i-t-i-o-n

as we mature we all have to make this transition...

we all have to let go of some of our fairy tale expectations

for love

and learn to embrace a kind of relationship that can survive hard winters.

For a love that has been tested is far inspiring

than the one that

has never known anything

but bliss.

Don't look for that someone whom you have no problems with,

but rather...

the one you are good in

overcoming problems



Sunday, May 18, 2008

things i learned in pre-school that are still useful today:


*Play fair

*Don't hit people

*Put things back were you found them

*Don't create mess

*Don't take things that aren't yours

*Say sorry when you hurt somebody


*Warm cookies and milk are good for you.

*Lived a balanced life- learn, play, sing and dance.

*Beware of strangers

and most of all....

***When you go out of the real world make sure someone is holding your hand***


_lesson to be learned...

..."speak when you are drunk....

and you'll make the best speech

you'll ever


someone who already did

one day that person

will wake up realizing how much i really mean....

when that day comes...

i'll be waking up with that

someone who already did...

realities are not built by the mind

One cannot question the existence of feelings...

they are there,

raw and undeniable.

But one can choose not to nurture what is felt.

Yet, no matter what they say, what has been felt will always

be more honest than what was chosen.

Hence realities are not

built by the mind but


the heart...

Friday, May 16, 2008

just when everything does

one of the reasons why people hold on to memories so tight

is because,

memories are the only things

that don't change

when everything


Thursday, May 15, 2008

let them do theirs

If you’re not sure where
You stand
In someone’s life,

It’s best to leave things
Behind so that
If they drop you off,
It will be easier to forget them.

Don’t waste your life
For something that can never be attained..

Don’t try hard when
Clearly, your efforts
Are not recognized.

It’s best to just give things up.

You’ve already done your part

Let them

do theirs.

Be careful
In letting go
Of those
You thought
Are just
Never know
That someday
You might
That the
One you gave away
Is the
Very thing
Been wanting
To stay.

after everything has been wrong

The measure of how matured a person
is not how well they prepare for everything to go right,

But how they stand up
& move on after everything has been wrong.

tomorrow might be different

In times you're sad about what's going on in your life...

Just remember
one permanent

Everything changes...

Tomorrow might




Tuesday, May 13, 2008

from Dora the explorer… (c”,)

“The first step towards getting somewhere

is to decide that you are not going to stay where you are”

A simple thought from

Dora the explorer… (c”,)

Monday, May 12, 2008

do you know what real sadness is???

It’s when you smile

and laugh

in front of people

but you really don’t know

what’s the reason to be happy about…

It’s when you look so strong

But in fact you’re getting

Weaker and weaker

Because of the pain that you’re feeling inside…

It’s when you face the crowd

and try to act like you’re ok

but your heart is really dying inside.

But the sad part is…


Only because you can’t

Let go of the

One who’s making you feel so sad. :(

no remedial classes


we realize to change for the better
just when the situation has gotten worse…

we realize to finally correct our mistakes
when it had already caused irreversible damage…

we finally decide to prove ourselves worthy
just when the person whom we want to prove our importance
already decided that you not worth it at all…

Remember that…

In school lessons are given before the test,

But in life the tests are given before the lesson.

Learn to value everyone.

Treat everything seriously.

Because in life, you’ll never know how much you have already compromised

Until it’s all too late.

Remember that everything is just once in a lifetime

And there are no remedial classes that you could attend to make up for what has already been lost.

But it’ll feel a lot less painful

Someone asked me once,

“Would you have still tried even if you know it wouldn’t work?”

I said,

“Love is like a basketball game. I got this one chance to take a shot. Would I take it or not??? If I make it, we win and we celebrate. If I don’t, we lose and we go home crying…

I guess I still take the shot, and in case if I'd miss it,

I know I’ll still cry.

But it’ll feel a lot less painful knowing that at least I tried.”

to fall in love

There’s a special level of comfort between two matching souls.

An unbreakable bond of constant support and closeness

It’s when a warm embrace feels so right.

Or when two hands fit so snuggly.

It’s a feeling that’s hard to define

But easy to recognize.

And when you

find that





you’ll never let go.

Everybody in this world is scared

And sometimes, it takes two scared persons to do one brave thing:


everything happens for a reason

We spend our lives
Telling ourselves

“everything happens for a reason…”

When in reality

It’s just that we give reason

For everything

That happens.

Happiness is our job

We go through life thinking

That someone else will make

Us happy…

But we’re wrong.

Happiness is our job,

We just need someone else to share it with.

Thursday, May 8, 2008

it happened before, it will happen again

one morning,

i'll wake up and

find I'm thinking about something else

and then I'll know the worst

is over...

my heart might be bruised but

it will recover

and become capable of seeing

the beauty of life once more.

It happened before,

it will happen again
I'm sure...

When someone leaves,

it's because someone is about

to arrive


I'll find love again...

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

because you were to0 busy holding on...

0Never waste your time

in a relationship that is doomed to ruin.

Sometimes to give up is way

better than to hold on.

For it's far painful to realize

that you have already

lose the chance

to meet the right one for you

because you were

too busy

holding on

to that someone

you're not supposed

to have... :(

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

“I wish he knew…”

While walking down the street I heard an old lady said, “I’ve been in love with the same man for almost 50 years…”

I was so touched.

But then she said,

“I wish he knew…”


“she just got over you…” :(

There’s a guy who is so in love with this girl but never had the courage to tell her.

After several years,

he saw the girl’s best friend and asked about her.

The friend replied, “she just got over you…” :(

why something so good had to end so badly...

It’s so painful to let go of someone that you loved for a long time.

It’s not really because of a wasted chance of happiness.

But rather it’s hard to understand

“why something so good had to end so badly.”

But is must be heartbreaking...

It is really hard to watch someone you love change before your eyes and know you can’t do anything about it…

But is must be heartbreaking to remember the way they once were…

spongebob and patrick

Spongebob: What do you usually do when I’m gone?

Patrick: Wait for you to come back.


become blessings in disguise after all

Everything that happens in this world has a purpose-

be it good or


The universe never willed our lives to be like hell.

So when a turning point

seems terrible…

later you would notice

that a wonderful thing


for the seemingly

hopeless incident.

Very often than not,

Our lives become better

and things become blessings



after all.

Love is a contradiction:

It’s hard to find one but it so easy to lose…

Makes you feel good but could hurt you so bad…

Opens your eyes but makes you blind…


Fills your heart but at the same time could tear it apart.

When lost, it wasn’t love at all.

ADMIRATION: when lost, you can find a new one.

FEELINGS: when lost, may never come back.

TRUST: when lost, it’s hard to regain.

LOVE: When lost, it wasn’t love at all.

“they lived happily once upon a time.”

Fairy tales usually start with

“once upon a time…”

And ends up with

“they lived happily ever after.”

But in married life,

It’s actually

“they lived happily once upon a time.”

Here’s a secret about being YOUNG:

Eat properly,

Exercise regularly,

Get plenty of rest,

Avoid stress,

And lie about your age. :)

Need to learn in life

What most people

Need to learn in life

Is how to love people and use things

Instead of

Using people

and loving things.

cat, mouse and purpose

In the chase between a Cat and Mouse, the Mouse usually wins.

This is because the Cat is running for its FOOD

But the Mouse is running for its LIFE.

PURPOSE is more important than NEED.

It’s the way we see things

Why was David able to stand against the giant when the army of Israel pulled back in fear???

It’s because he saw Goliath not as a big threat but a target to big to miss.

Most of the time it’s not the situation that has the complication.

It’s the way we see things that matter very much in determining success.


Love is a risk.

Sometimes you win and sometimes you lose.

Whether it is pain or joy…

Whether it is right or wrong…


Only life’s lessons.

Most relationship falls NOT because the absence of love…

Love is always present…

It’s just that

One loves too much and

The other loves too little.


the brighter side of pain

It tells you that the relationship doesn’t work anymore and you need to move on before you self-destruct.

See the logic???

Monday, May 5, 2008

love yourself

Never push someone to love you back...

Never wait for too long just for nothing...

It is just a waste of time...

for if he really loves you,

he'll do everything.

learn to keep a little for yourself...



at times it also defines your dignity and most especially...

who you are.

and if you can't love...

"Our P-R-I-M-E purpose

in this life is to love others...

and if you can't love them...

at least


so true...

A good apology has 3 parts

1) I'm sorry.

2) It was my fault.

3) How do I make it RIGHT?

A lot of people usually miss the 3rd part.


Sunday, May 4, 2008

nobody waits forever

They met but at the wrong time.

He had his reasons and she had hers.

They were both confused....

so they decided to part ways.

She wants him to wait, he said he will whatever it takes.

Years later...

They saw each other again...


Too late to make it work.


People do change,

so does the heart.

Seize the moment.

Because the truth is...

Nobody really waits forever. :(

Friday, May 2, 2008

when you DON’T EVEN NEED to hear the words ‘I love you’

A perfect partner in life is someone you can be with and talk to about anything without realizing the day is over…

Someone who will always listen and feel twice the joy or pain you’re going through.

When you start to feel that ‘CONNECTION,’ never let it go because there’s more to COMPANIONSHIP than to LOVE only.

And in the end, when all else fails, and are consumed, you will always hold on to those times

when you DON’T EVEN NEED to hear the words ‘I love you’

to feel happy and contented.:)


I’ve realized that life is indeed full of contradictions:
Sometimes it’s crazy to be sane…

You need to fall in order to fly…
People suffer because you care…

You have to give up because you’re strong &…
You have to be wrong to make things right.

Nonetheless, life’s complexities are also life’s sources of beauty:

We cry to smile again…
Fall apart to be whole &…

And get hurt to love again. (ñ_ñ)

love and war

L-o-V-e is

Like a W-a-R

Easy to Start

But hard to end…

So when

You fall in love…

Choose the one who’s willing to fight with You

& especially the one who won’t


on you

Until the end.

at the end of the day...

In life we always search for answers because we want to prove to ourselves that we made the right decision.

But the truth is we can’t search for what’s not there.

Things happen because it’s meant to happen.

That’s why we forgive people who don’t love us…

We smile despite every painful crash in our hearts…

And at the end of the day you will realize that the lesson we get
is the answer to our decisions… :)


School Room:

The professor didn’t like the way the students kept looking at the clock.

So he put this sign above it:


only cry for a moment

Things happen because we choose to...

there may be regrets but blaming is not an option.

We are where we are because we brought ourselves there.

Cry for a moment to let the tears wash away the sadness and pain..

but only for a moment.

Never think that everything is wasted because no matter how cruel the situation is,

it's not really a waste of your time

but rather it's an opportunity for you to discern the complexities of life

and then learn everything from it.


“The most painful thing in this world is not death nor love that is lost…

but rather

a lie is repeatedly told in CONSCIOUS PRETENSIONS.”

god is the reason why

God is the reason why even in pain we SMILE…

even in confusion we UNDERSTAND…

even in betrayal we TRUST…

and in even in fear we continue to FIGHT in life.

no one hears a hearbreak

A heart that is breaking isn’t always as loud as a bomb exploding…

Sometimes it can be as quiet as a feather falling.

And the most painful of it is that no one hears it…

Except yourself…:(

HALLMARK CARDS that you can send to your EX:

-As the day goes by. I think of how lucky I am…

-That you’re not here to ruin it for me.

-I’ve always wanted someone to have and to hold, someone to love…

-After meeting you I’ve changed my mind.

-I must admit you brought Religion to my life…

-I never believed in hell till I met you!


not a typical friendship quote

Friends cheer you up whenever you’re down…

Comforts you when you’re sad…

Fight for you when you’re hurt…

Friends are always there for you but like you,

they also encounter problems which make them sad and feel so down.

So if ever you think your friend has changed

and doesn’t care for you anymore.

Just think that friends cry and get tired to…

They probably are just trying to fix troubles with themselves –

and these are the moments that they need more than anything…

your understanding.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you happy.

If a man wants you…

Nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn’t want you…

Nothing can make him stay.

Stop trying to change yourself to a relationship that is not meant to be.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you happy.

_sex and the city_

Two of the hardest tests in life

“The patience to wait for the right moment

and the courage not to be disappointed with what you encounter..”

Be a WOMAN more than a man’s lady. C:

Be BEATIFUL more than pretty;

Be SMART more than sexy;

RESPECTED more than praised;

DIGNIFIED more than popular;

Be a WOMAN more than a man’s lady. C:


-A long journey may not be good enough but a good life is good enough.

-All truth is good but not all truth is good to say.

-Anger is just one letter short of Danger.

-Even your ten fingers are unequal.

-To handle yourself, use your HEAD, to handle others use your head and your HEART.

-Revenge gets you even with your enemy but forgiving him puts you ABOVE him.

-It’s better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open your mouth to prove it.

walk the walk

Life is a series of journey where everyone must walk to find their purpose.

Some people spend the rest of their journey in finding someone who would share their walk in life…

But I’m different.

Because I prefer not to look back to people who’s no longer walking with me…

Then someone asked:
“Why did you just let other people leave you?

Then I answered:
“Life is a long journey…

I don’t want to waste my time in people who don’t want to walk with me.”

because true GIANTS don't mind bowing low...

Have you observed a rice field and noticed which heads are bent and which ones stand straight??

Well the empty heads are standing tall and high.

The heads that are filled with grains are bending low.

Indeed, the true, great and strong people are humble and gentle…

TRUE GIANTS don’t mind bowing low. =>

Bitter and sweet

“Not all that you wanted, though you’ve worked hard for it, is always meant to be yours. You somehow lose…”

“But when you lost someone or something, there will come a better one that you surely deserve more than anything.”

Proving happiness

Proving happiness isn’t seen on how many times you laughed….

But it’s on…

Finding that sensible reason every time you smile…


it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights but still it will not rain FOREVER.

Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone they love so much would still wish against all odds to have that love back again.

But sometimes a love lost is a love gone forever.

No amount of hope can bring to life a relationship that just died a natural death.

Remember it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights but still it will not rain FOREVER.

One day the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where you can find rest.

It’s never too late.

You may find love and lose it

but when love dies

you never have to die with it as well.

life's lesson from the words "i miss you"

You know what's sad about the words 'I miss you?'

More often than not those are the words you say when you need someone you used to be with...


You won't know how much you love a person until you don't see them anymore......:( sad but true...

the bor__der___line between cheating and commitment

There's always a possiblity that one who's in a relationship could get attracted to another...

yet you may get attracted to numerous prospects as long as you don't nurture your feelings and do something about it...


the bor__der___line between cheating and commitment

holds the reality that you already

have the person that could give you more than

what you get from cheap thrills of attraction...

and indeed you deserve more than that...

Thursday, May 1, 2008

Quotes from Sex and the City

Never let a man define who you are.

Do not make him a quasi-god- he’s a man, nothing more, nothing less.

Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.

All men are not dogs. You should not be the one who do all the bending.

Share with the other ladies…

You’ll make someone smile,

another rethink her choices,

and another woman to prepare.

from BUgS BunNy with L-O-V-E

"I like dead-end signs...

I think they are kind.

At least they have the decency to let you know...

you are going nowhere... (ñ_ñ)

how sad it is to wake up...

Bad dreams make me wake up crying when I was


but you know what???

this time....

good dreams make me realize how sad it is to wake up...



-Everybody wants to live a long life, but nobody wants to get old.

-Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die.


-Nobody seems to realize that in our Life's Journey, no one has ever reached the finish line ALIVE... :)

Find time to love

Thought of the day:

"Find love when you have time....

and find time when you have already found the one to love...

so simple but SO true... :)

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