Wednesday, January 28, 2009

the right choice

A lot of times we regret words we said or left unsaid.

We are sorry for starts that had bitter endings...

For chances we threw away…

For choices we should not have made…

For signs we ignored…

People we hurt and wounds inflicted on them…

The past can’t be rewritten

nor cannot be taken back.

But it can teach us lessons-

which hopefully would help us

be better persons…

so next time you will never have to commit

the same mistakes

and this time

make the right choice.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

the undead

I was not aware that he came only to love me for a while.

I was aiming to be with him forever but he’s not willing to work it out.

While I was busy planning for us, he was busy planning his life with another person.

It hurts too much but all I can do is watch him walk away and that’s the end of it.

There goes my forever.

There goes my life.

I know he’s gone


holding onto him

has become my way

to keep me alive.

Friday, January 23, 2009

love shouldn't be one of them...

Unless it's



extraordinary LOVE,

it's a waste of time.

There are too many mediocre things in life



shouldn't be

one of them...

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

for once....

For once I want to be the one who made the player fall,

the one who made the player change

and made the player give his all....

I want to be the person made the player quit the game,

retire the jersey...

and draw hearts around my name...

even just for this one time,

i want to be loved,

not played.

Sunday, January 18, 2009


Sometimes its easier to let the one you love go,

not knowing the real reason

because it would surely hurt more

when you find it


Saturday, January 17, 2009

fairy tale expectations

I don’t know why I won’t learn

that my Romeo isn’t ready to die for me,

that my prince charming isn’t interested to know who owns the other half of my glass shoes,

that my Jack would just leave me dying in the sunken ship,

that my Peter Pan wont be with me forever


that the person I gave my heart to

will never realize that there’s a

happily ever after

that can be found in me.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

holding the rope

Deepening intimacy without accepting a commitment is dangerous.

It’s like going mountain climbing with a partner

who isn’t sure he or she wants

the responsibility

of holding

your rope.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

one season ends yet another one begins...

If you give up when it's winter,
you'll surely miss the promise of your spring,

the beauty of your summer
and the fulfillment of your fall...

Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joys of all the rest..

Don't just judge life by one difficult season
but instead persevere through the difficult patches...

And better ones are sure to come,

some time or later...

Whydoes he need to make me fall...?

...when he's not going to CATCH me??!??

it hurts...

but it hurts me more when i see

him catching someone else while

i'm falling..... =(

Monday, January 12, 2009

the logic of letting go

I was never that person who patiently picks up broken fragments

and glue them together again

and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new.

What is broken is broken…

And I’d rather remember it as it was best than mend it

and see the broken pieces as long as I live.

--Margaret Mitchell

Sunday, January 11, 2009

if it's wrong to keep on hoping...

Especially if the situation tells us that things aren’t just for you.

But are you to be blamed?

When someone just keeps on making you feel that things are right...


Saturday, January 10, 2009

someone you could call mine than ideal...

when you love,

...never stick only to what your heart feels...
Remember that sometimes using your brain is a necessity.


...never use your eyes to cry for the personwho hurt you...
instead use it to search for the right one.


don't be scared breaking up...
keeping a relationship without love is just a waste of time.

Take note:

Love the one who will fight for you
and bravely face each and every consequence.

Someone whom you can call"MINE"

rather than"IDEAL"...

Friday, January 9, 2009

it's sad but it happens

“It’s weird as it happens, isn’t it?

You still love the person,

but you just stop needing them like you used to..”

Thursday, January 8, 2009

when change becomes too constant...


the things we can't change

end up


us... :(

opportunities and chances...

People are given opportunity to meet the love of their lives…

Some unexpected…

Some through years of friendship…

Some by chance…

Some in an instant…

Only a few have the foresight to see beyond imperfections

and take it wholeheartedly…

When love is present

it won’t require-

…how you look like

…how you dress

…how you are perceived by others

But on what you become when that person is around.

Learn to appreciate the people around you because

you might lose a person who cares

and love you most…

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

I can say, “I’m over him”

I can say, “I’m over him” a million times and more.

I can stand to laugh as if there’s no tomorrow.

I can perfectly curse his name.

But once he’s around, I don’t know and I can’t explain.

Why my heart beats so fast that I could hardly gasp,

making me want to fall into his arms once again.

After everything that he’d put me through,

he still owns the biggest part of me

and the sad part is that,

I can do nothing about it.

Math tells us 3 of the saddest love stories:

Tangent Lines which had one chance to meet and then parted forever…

Parallel Lines which were never meant to meet…

Asymptotes Lines which can get close but will never be together…


Monday, January 5, 2009

waiting for the real reason. :)

You’ll know if the person really cares

when he asks

what’s wrong


when you tell him nothing,

he stays there…

waiting for the real reason. :)

Saturday, January 3, 2009 a challenge

Acknowledging your feelings and sharing it unconditionally

is love.

Fighting for what would really make you happy

is courage.

Letting go of what you once had if it already belongs to someone

is respect.

Knowing what to do

is wisdom...

But doing what wisdom dictates

is a challenge.

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