All we can do is to live it to the fullest

Don't shield yourself from pain,

never fear pain either.

Face whatever it is that comes your way.

Don't be afraid to stumble and fall,

to cry and get hurt.

Dread not those helpless moments,

when you can't even fight your tears back,

and all you can do is stare at something and let time pass.

You can only understand happiness after you've felt pain.

Life is not fair,

it never was,

and it won't ever be.

All we can do is to live it to the fullest.

that will never work

I was, but then I realized that I was holding on to something that didn't exist anymore.

That the person I missed didn't exist anymore.

People change.

The things we like and dislike have changed.

And we can wish they didn't all day long, but that never works.

after the rain

Don't be scared that you won't find anyone else who will love you.

Because you will when the time is right.

Give yourself the chance to be happy

and if it means letting go of something seemingly good.

Changes can be hard at the start,

but it doesn't mean that if things change,

it will always be for the worse.

It will be hard at the start,

but it would definitely get better someday.

at the end of the day

it's about whether YOU like yourself enough

to face the reality that your romance wasn't working,

to recognize that it wasn't giving you what you needed & deserved,

& to pull yourself out of the dumps

& seize the opportunity before you.

Because as messed up

as everything seems right now,

this could be the

single best thing that's ever happened to you.

I just want to feel again.

I read these confessions,

and the sad ones,

the ones about people who love someone so much

it hurts when that someone doesn't even care,

and I'm jealous,

I'm so jealous of them.

I haven't felt real love,

love that takes over every part of your heart

and mind since he left me.

I haven't felt anything.

I just want to feel again.

go on

Good memories tell you that your past was worth it,

bad ones tell you that you were strong enough

to go on.

Love and Other Drugs

Sometimes the things you want the most don't happen

and what you least expect happens.

I don't know - you meet thousands of people

and none of them really touch you.

And then you meet that one person.....

and your life is changed.

-Love and Other Drugs

there's hope...

I've hit rock bottom so many times that

I couldn't even count them anymore even if I include my toes.

But I'm glad that I did because

I wouldn't be this strong and invincible to pain;

I wouldn't have known my true friends;

I wouldn't have loved my family more.

And I am more than ever confident to myself

and faithful to God.

Cheers to life! :)

rock bottom

"Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life."


- J. K. Rowling

get lost moving on

When you have the reason to walk away,

never look back.

Just keep on walking even if your decision is unclear.

It will take a lot of courage for every step you make but it will save you some pride and honor for yourself.

It's better to get lost moving on then being stranded and

broken after all.

Matchbox 20

Hurt is a funny thing.

Even though it makes you feel weak inside,

it actually makes you stronger.

a thought from a broken heart

I’ll dine with my family… and with my beautiful friends. I’ll text them and say I love them for taking care of me… go out with them, watch movies, eat lots and lots of ice-cream, write blogs, cook spaghetti, have fun, pamper myself, maybe plan to have a great escape from work, reach my dreams, travel, and maybe someday, when God senses I am strong enough to enter into a commitment, I’ll meet that someone who can promise that my tears will be worthwhile shedding and could promise me that no matter how many beautiful girls he meets and sees, he would still come home and tell me sincerely that I am his perfect match- and that’s something worth looking forward to.

when he was around...

When I let him go,

life became easier,

worries are gone,

no more fights,

sleepless nights and tears

but then when I let him go

I don’t hear the sweetest sound of “I love you” anymore,

no more monthsary

and endless talks.

Well I guess life is easier without him

but a lot happier

when he was around.

we have to change

If we contemplate on the past for too long,

we pass up the chance to change and grow..

whether we like it or not,

it takes extra effort to accommodate changes in our lives..

we have to make choices..

we have to make space..


we have to let things go..


and we have to let things

CHANGE.

it's sad but it happens

“It’s weird as it happens, isn’t it?


You still love the person,


but you just stop needing them like you used to..”

when change becomes too constant...

Sometimes...


the things we can't change



end up


changing


us... :(

A prayer for today

This is a beginning of a new day.




God has given me this day to use it as I will.




I can waste it or use it for good, but what I do today is important, because I am exchanging a day of my life for it.




When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever, leaving in its place something that I have traded for it.




I want it to be gain, and not loss; good, and not evil; success, and not failure, in order that I shall not regret the price I have paid for it.



This day is all we have. Is there someone to whom an act of kindness- not tomorrow but today- could make a difference?



Today, whether we spend it well or throw it all away, will be gone tomorrow.



What is there to do that is worth our effort???





-W. Heartstill Wilson

No strings attached

Sometimes, if a string gets too tangled and messed up to solve,


it’s better to cut it out


to start a new one


and






save the untangled part.

always in your heart

Maybe our mistakes are what make our fate.


Without them, what would shape our lives?


Perhaps if we never veered off course,


we wouldn't fall in love,


or have babies,


or be who we are.


After all, seasons change.



People come into your life and people go.


But it's comforting to know the ones you love



are always in your heart."

The Remedy

Right actions done today are the best apologies for the wrong ones done in the past.