Sunday, February 27, 2011

All we can do is to live it to the fullest

Don't shield yourself from pain,

never fear pain either.

Face whatever it is that comes your way.

Don't be afraid to stumble and fall,

to cry and get hurt.

Dread not those helpless moments,

when you can't even fight your tears back,

and all you can do is stare at something and let time pass.

You can only understand happiness after you've felt pain.

Life is not fair,

it never was,

and it won't ever be.

All we can do is to live it to the fullest.

from Buddha with love

You can search throughout the entire universe

for someone who is more deserving of your love

and affection than you are yourself,

and that person is not to be found anywhere.

You yourself,

as much as anybody in the entire universe

deserve your love and affection.

i was that girl

I hope someday you would remember me as the girl

who always smile even when her heart is broken

and the one who could always brighten up your day

even if she couldn't brighten up her own.

two regretful words...

The greatest mistake we make are the risks we didn't take.

If you think something will make you happy,

go for it so that you won't live your life asking,

"What if?"

and telling yourself,

"If only...

Saturday, February 26, 2011

makes sense

In a crowd a man cracked a joke.

The people laughed hard.

After a moment he cracked the same joke again & a little less people laughed this time.

He cracked the same joke again & very few laughed this time.

When there was no laughter in the crowd,

he smiled & said,

"when you can't laugh on the same joke again & again then why do you keep crying over the same thing over & over again?"

Relationships only fail if you don't try

You need patience.

People just want an automatic love story,

but it doesn't happen that way.

You have to put in effort.

Pull your end of the rope,

and if you truly love the person,

you'll go out of your way to make it work.

Friday, February 25, 2011

think again

If he acts like you're not worth his time,

Maybe you're not what he wants..

you're just a replacement for what he can't have..

11 minutes

In love, no one can harm anyone else;

we are each of us responsible for our own feelings

and cannot blame someone else for what we feel.

It hurts when I lost each of the various men I fell in love with.

Now, though, I am convinced that no one loses anyone,

because no one owns anyone.

That is the true experience of freedom:

having the most important thing in the world

without owning it.

Thursday, February 24, 2011

that will never work

I was, but then I realized that I was holding on to something that didn't exist anymore.

That the person I missed didn't exist anymore.

People change.

The things we like and dislike have changed.

And we can wish they didn't all day long, but that never works.

but a patient heart that listens

To be kind is more important than to be right.

Sometimes what a person needs is not a brilliant mind that speaks

but a patient heart that listens.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

never steal somebody else's man

If a woman were to love again,

she'd better pick a bachelor.

Because a married man had already found his only one true love - his wife.

And the only thing he could give to you

is half of what he has.

One half is lust

and the other half is lies.

Who knows you have the wrong half?

But either half can do no good to you.

maybe both

I don't know if we each have a destiny,

or if we're all just floatin' around accidental-like on a breeze.

But I,

I think maybe it's both,

maybe both happening at the same time.

--Forrest Gump

meet Joe Black

I know it's a cornball thing but love is passion..


something you can't live without.

If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with?

I say fall head over heels.

Find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back.

And how do you find him?

Forget your head and listen to your heart.

I'm not hearing any heart..

Run the risk,

if you get hurt,

you'll come back.

Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this.

To make the journey and not fall deeply in love

--well, you haven't lived a life at all.

You have to try.

Because if you haven't tried,

you haven't lived...

after the rain

Don't be scared that you won't find anyone else who will love you.

Because you will when the time is right.

Give yourself the chance to be happy

and if it means letting go of something seemingly good.

Changes can be hard at the start,

but it doesn't mean that if things change,

it will always be for the worse.

It will be hard at the start,

but it would definitely get better someday.


It's when you go through

the hard trials of trust and sacrifice.

And still you wake up

every morning falling in love

all over again.

at the end of the day

it's about whether YOU like yourself enough

to face the reality that your romance wasn't working,

to recognize that it wasn't giving you what you needed & deserved,

& to pull yourself out of the dumps

& seize the opportunity before you.

Because as messed up

as everything seems right now,

this could be the

single best thing that's ever happened to you.

be patient

you will get whatever you ask

in prayer.

In time.

once had

Sometimes we believe that life has to move on.

We reminisce about the past and good things never last.

But somehow,

we silently wish to hold on to the one we

once had.

Friday, February 18, 2011

I just want to feel again.

I read these confessions,

and the sad ones,

the ones about people who love someone so much

it hurts when that someone doesn't even care,

and I'm jealous,

I'm so jealous of them.

I haven't felt real love,

love that takes over every part of your heart

and mind since he left me.

I haven't felt anything.

I just want to feel again.

Thursday, February 3, 2011

the hard way

At a certain stage in your life,

you realize who your real friends are.

Too bad you have to find out the hard the way.

go on

Good memories tell you that your past was worth it,

bad ones tell you that you were strong enough

to go on.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

A thousand thanks ^^

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save some self-respect

If relationship becomes painful,

let it go and save yourself.

Remember: you will be able to find new love

but never another self.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

rule #1

Respect people's relationships.

There's so many other fish in the sea,

so why mess with the one that's already been caught?

no more holding on

You know it's time to let go when it actually hurts more to give up than to hold on.

just LIVE

You can't upload Love,

You can't download Time,

You can't Google all of Life's answers.

You must actually LIVE your life.


Its funny how someone can break your heart

and you still love them

with all the little pieces.

Sometimes, broken love is like this:

“I will still be thinking of you just the same way. I will still be feeling those butterflies in my stomach whenever you are around. I will still look at you with such wonder of how someone so near to perfection came my way. I will still care for you just the same way. I will still pray for you every night before I sleep. But the only difference is you will never ever know.”

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