South Of The Border, West Of The Sun

I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.

-- Haruki Murakami

love the imperfections

You may find your partner boring so you will try to look for someone else, someone new, someone better. then you got a new partner and you realized that the old partner you thought was boring is the best you ever had.

What's the lesson?
LOVE THE IMPERFECTIONS.

someone smiles

You yearn for someone not because you want to be complete.

But because you want to add more color to your life.

That person must not necessarily break through your busy schedules.

That person must inspire you to manage your time well instead.

You see, it's not a matter of distance and time,

it's more like friendship in a higher level.

It's smiling alone every once in a while.

Knowing that somewhere,

somehow,

someone smiles at the thought of you.

not even close

I found the right guy,

gave the perfect love.

It was the right time.


Everything was perfect except for one thing.

For him,

I wasn't the perfect girl

and I wasn't even close to being the right one.

Modern MU vs. Modern Relationship

The Modern Mutual Understanding--

To chill together.
Do things together.
Spend time with each other and you laugh together except for one thing--

Commitment.


Then here's Modern Relationship:

You chill together.
Do things together.
Spend time with each other and after a time,
fight each other,
shout at each other,
hurt and cheat one another,
stay committed except for one thing--

Being happy.

hope floats

Beginnings are scary.

Endings are usually sad,

but it's what's in the middle that counts.

So, when you find yourself at the beginning,

just give hope a chance to float up.

And it will.

sometimes things such as these happen

Three people you will meet in life: First is the one you love most, second is the one who loves you most and the third is the one you spend the rest of your life with. Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person. The one you love most doesn't love you. The one who loves you the most is never the one you love the most, and the one you spend your life with, is neither the one you love nor the one who loves you the most. He/she is just the person who happens to be a the right place at the right time.

you don't drown...

You don't drown by falling in the water;

you drown by staying there.

Just like falling in love with someone else

who's in love with someone else.

transform

The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others

how much they love them

while they're alive.

-- Optimus Prime

uncle ben

People will adore and love you for all the things you've done for them, but will hate you for a single mistake, that's the irony of life

--Spiderman

sad but true

People say “I Love You” just for the sake of saying it, some just for pity, and some because they promised.

When you really think hard, the people who find it hard to say it are usually the only ones who mean it.

forget the EX

Learn to love the person who is with you right now.

Forget the person in the past

and thank them for hurting you because

they lead you to the person you have right now.